رَبَّنَا أَفْرِغْ عَلَيْنَا صَبْرًا وَتَوَفَّنَا مُسْلِمِينَ
Rabbana afrigh 'alayna sabran wa tawaffana Muslimin
Our Lord, pour upon us patience and let us die as Muslims.
While this du'a was made by the magicians of Pharaoh after they believed, it is widely used in the context of patience in marriage and family life. Marriage requires immense patience — and the greatest reward is to pass through life's trials together and meet Allah as faithful believers.
Related Du'as
اللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْنِي زَوْجَةً صَالِحَةً إِذَا نَظَرْتُ إِلَيْهَا سَرَّتْنِي وَإِذَا غِبْتُ عَنْهَا حَفِظَتْنِي فِي نَفْسِهَا وَمَالِي
O Allah, provide me with a righteous wife — one who pleases me when I look at her, and who guards herself and my wealth in my absence.
Hasanاللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْ بَيْنَنَا مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً وَسَكِينَةً، وَأَلِّفْ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِنَا وَاجْعَلْنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ لِبَعْضِنَا
O Allah, place between us affection, mercy, and tranquility. Unite our hearts and make us the coolness of each other's eyes.
Sahihاللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْنِي زَوْجًا صَالِحًا يُعِينُنِي عَلَى أَمْرِ دُنْيَايَ وَآخِرَتِي
O Allah, provide me with a righteous spouse who helps me in matters of my worldly life and my Hereafter.
Atharاللَّهُمَّ أَلِّفْ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِنَا وَأَصْلِحْ ذَاتَ بَيْنِنَا وَاهْدِنَا سُبُلَ السَّلَامِ وَنَجِّنَا مِنَ الظُّلُمَاتِ إِلَى النُّورِ وَجَنِّبْنَا الْفَوَاحِشَ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا وَمَا بَطَنَ
O Allah, unite our hearts, mend our relations, guide us to paths of peace, deliver us from darkness into light, and keep us away from indecencies — both outward and inward.
Sahih