رَبَّنَا أَفْرِغْ عَلَيْنَا صَبْرًا وَتَوَفَّنَا مُسْلِمِينَ
Rabbana afrigh 'alayna sabran wa tawaffana Muslimin
Our Lord, pour upon us patience and let us die as Muslims.
While this du'a was made by the magicians of Pharaoh after they believed, it is widely used in the context of patience in marriage and family life. Marriage requires immense patience — and the greatest reward is to pass through life's trials together and meet Allah as faithful believers.
Related Du'as
بَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي خَيْرٍ
May Allah bless you and shower His blessings upon you, and bring you both together in goodness.
Sahihاللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْ بَيْنَنَا مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً وَسَكِينَةً، وَأَلِّفْ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِنَا وَاجْعَلْنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ لِبَعْضِنَا
O Allah, place between us affection, mercy, and tranquility. Unite our hearts and make us the coolness of each other's eyes.
Sahihاللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْنِي زَوْجًا صَالِحًا يُعِينُنِي عَلَى أَمْرِ دُنْيَايَ وَآخِرَتِي
O Allah, provide me with a righteous spouse who helps me in matters of my worldly life and my Hereafter.
Atharرَبَّنَا آتِنَا فِي الدُّنْيَا حَسَنَةً وَفِي الْآخِرَةِ حَسَنَةً وَقِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ
Our Lord, give us in this world that which is good and in the Hereafter that which is good, and protect us from the punishment of the Fire.
Sahih