اللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْنِي زَوْجًا صَالِحًا يُعِينُنِي عَلَى أَمْرِ دُنْيَايَ وَآخِرَتِي
Allahumma-rzuqni zawjan salihan yu'inuni 'ala amri dunyaya wa akhirati
O Allah, provide me with a righteous spouse who helps me in matters of my worldly life and my Hereafter.
The du'a is gender-neutral ("zawjan" can mean spouse of either gender) and the criterion is clear: someone who helps you in BOTH worlds. Not just a partner for dunya — mortgages, dinners, vacations — but for akhirah: waking you for Fajr, encouraging your Quran, softening your heart. The best spouse is not the most attractive or wealthy but the one who makes your Hereafter better.
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اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْتَخِيرُكَ بِعِلْمِكَ وَأَسْتَقْدِرُكَ بِقُدْرَتِكَ وَأَسْأَلُكَ مِنْ فَضْلِكَ الْعَظِيمِ فَإِنَّكَ تَقْدِرُ وَلَا أَقْدِرُ وَتَعْلَمُ وَلَا أَعْلَمُ وَأَنْتَ عَلَّامُ الْغُيُوبِ اللَّهُمَّ إِنْ كُنتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ خَيْرٌ لِّي فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي فَاقْدُرْهُ لِي وَيَسِّرْهُ لِي ثُمَّ بَارِكْ لِي فِيهِ وَإِنْ كُنتَ تَعْلَمُ أَنَّ هَذَا الْأَمْرَ شَرٌّ لِّي فِي دِينِي وَمَعَاشِي وَعَاقِبَةِ أَمْرِي فَاصْرِفْهُ عَنِّي وَاصْرِفْنِي عَنْهُ وَاقْدُرْ لِيَ الْخَيْرَ حَيْثُ كَانَ ثُمَّ أَرْضِنِي بِهِ
O Allah, I seek Your guidance through Your knowledge, and I seek ability through Your power, and I ask of Your great bounty. You are capable and I am not. You know and I do not. And You are the Knower of the unseen. O Allah, if You know this matter is good for me in my religion, my livelihood, and the outcome of my affairs — decree it for me, make it easy for me, and bless me in it. And if You know this matter is bad for me in my religion, my livelihood, and the outcome of my affairs — turn it away from me and turn me away from it, and decree for me what is good wherever it may be, then make me content with it.
Sahihبِسْمِ اللَّهِ اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا
In the Name of Allah. O Allah, keep Shaytan away from us and keep Shaytan away from what You bless us with.
Sahihرَبَّنَا أَفْرِغْ عَلَيْنَا صَبْرًا وَتَوَفَّنَا مُسْلِمِينَ
Our Lord, pour upon us patience and let us die as Muslims.
Sahihاللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْنِي زَوْجَةً صَالِحَةً إِذَا نَظَرْتُ إِلَيْهَا سَرَّتْنِي وَإِذَا غِبْتُ عَنْهَا حَفِظَتْنِي فِي نَفْسِهَا وَمَالِي
O Allah, provide me with a righteous wife — one who pleases me when I look at her, and who guards herself and my wealth in my absence.
Hasan