اللَّهُمَّ بَارِكْ لِي فِي أَهْلِي وَبَارِكْ لَهُمْ فِيَّ وَارْزُقْنِي خَيْرَهُمْ وَارْزُقْهُمْ خَيْرِي
Allahumma barik li fi ahli wa barik lahum fiyya warzuqni khayrahum warzuqhum khayri
O Allah, bless me through my family and bless them through me. Grant me the best of them and grant them the best of me.
Mutual barakah — asking that your family becomes a source of blessing for you, and you become a source of blessing for them. The addition of "grant me the best of them and grant them the best of me" takes it further: it asks Allah to bring out each person's best side in the family dynamic. The bidirectional nature is important: some people are blessed by their family but are themselves a burden. Others give everything but receive nothing. This du'a asks for the flow of blessing and goodness to work in both directions — a family where everyone lifts everyone else, and where the best version of each person shows up at home, not just outside.
Related Du'as
رَبِّ لَا تَذَرْنِي فَرْدًا وَأَنْتَ خَيْرُ الْوَارِثِينَ
My Lord, do not leave me alone with no offspring, while You are the best of inheritors.
Sahihرَبِّ هَبْ لِي مِن لَّدُنكَ ذُرِّيَّةً طَيِّبَةً ۖ إِنَّكَ سَمِيعُ الدُّعَاءِ
My Lord, grant me from Yourself good offspring. Indeed, You are the Hearer of supplication.
Sahihاللَّهُمَّ أَلِّفْ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِنَا وَأَصْلِحْ ذَاتَ بَيْنِنَا وَاهْدِنَا سُبُلَ السَّلَامِ وَنَجِّنَا مِنَ الظُّلُمَاتِ إِلَى النُّورِ وَجَنِّبْنَا الْفَوَاحِشَ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا وَمَا بَطَنَ
O Allah, unite our hearts, mend our relations, guide us to paths of peace, deliver us from darkness into light, and keep us away from indecencies — both outward and inward.
Sahihرَبَّنَا هَبْ لَنَا مِنْ أَزْوَاجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّاتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعْيُنٍ وَاجْعَلْنَا لِلْمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes, and make us a leader for the righteous.
Sahih