اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لِأَبِي وَلِأُمِّي وَارْحَمْهُمَا وَتَجَاوَزْ عَنْهُمَا وَأَكْرِمْ مَثْوَاهُمَا
Allahummagh-fir li-abi wa li-ummi warhamhuma wa tajawaz 'anhuma wa akrim mathwahuma
O Allah, forgive my father and my mother, have mercy on them, overlook their shortcomings, and honor their resting place.
The Prophet ﷺ was asked: "Is there any birr I can do for my parents after they die?" He said: "Yes — pray for them, seek forgiveness for them, fulfill their pledges, maintain ties with their relatives, and honor their friends" (Abu Dawud 5142). "Akrim mathwahuma" — honor their resting place (the grave or the afterlife abode) — asks Allah to dignify where they now reside. Birr does not end at the grave. Five ways to serve parents who are no longer alive — and du'a is the first and most consistent of them. Ibn Umar (RA) would honor his father's friends long after Umar's death, carrying on the bond.
Related Du'as
اللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْنِي بَارًّا بِوَالِدَيَّ وَارْزُقْنِي رِضَاهُمَا وَأَعِنِّي عَلَى خِدْمَتِهِمَا بِمَا يُرْضِيكَ عَنِّي
O Allah, make me dutiful to my parents, grant me their pleasure, and help me serve them in a way that pleases You.
Atharرَبَّنَا اغْفِرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيَّ وَلِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَوْمَ يَقُومُ الْحِسَابُ
Our Lord, forgive me and my parents and the believers on the Day the account is established.
Sahihاللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لَهُمَا وَارْحَمْهُمَا وَعَافِهِمَا وَاعْفُ عَنْهُمَا وَأَكْرِمْ نُزُلَهُمَا وَوَسِّعْ مُدْخَلَهُمَا وَاغْسِلْهُمَا بِالْمَاءِ وَالثَّلْجِ وَالْبَرَدِ
O Allah, forgive them both, have mercy on them, grant them well-being, pardon them, honor their reception, expand their entrance, and wash them with water, snow, and hail.
Sahihرَبِّ أَوْزِعْنِي أَنْ أَشْكُرَ نِعْمَتَكَ الَّتِي أَنْعَمْتَ عَلَيَّ وَعَلَىٰ وَالِدَيَّ وَأَنْ أَعْمَلَ صَالِحًا تَرْضَاهُ
My Lord, inspire me to be grateful for Your favor which You have bestowed upon me and upon my parents, and to do righteous deeds that please You.
Sahih