اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لِأَبِي وَلِأُمِّي وَارْحَمْهُمَا وَتَجَاوَزْ عَنْهُمَا وَأَكْرِمْ مَثْوَاهُمَا
Allahummagh-fir li-abi wa li-ummi warhamhuma wa tajawaz 'anhuma wa akrim mathwahuma
O Allah, forgive my father and my mother, have mercy on them, overlook their shortcomings, and honor their resting place.
The Prophet ﷺ was asked: "Is there any birr I can do for my parents after they die?" He said: "Yes — pray for them, seek forgiveness for them, fulfill their pledges, maintain ties with their relatives, and honor their friends" (Abu Dawud 5142). "Akrim mathwahuma" — honor their resting place (the grave or the afterlife abode) — asks Allah to dignify where they now reside. Birr does not end at the grave. Five ways to serve parents who are no longer alive — and du'a is the first and most consistent of them. Ibn Umar (RA) would honor his father's friends long after Umar's death, carrying on the bond.
Related Du'as
اللَّهُمَّ اغْفِرْ لَهُ وَارْحَمْهُ وَعَافِهِ وَاعْفُ عَنْهُ وَأَكْرِمْ نُزُلَهُ وَوَسِّعْ مُدْخَلَهُ وَاغْسِلْهُ بِالْمَاءِ وَالثَّلْجِ وَالْبَرَدِ وَنَقِّهِ مِنَ الذُّنُوبِ وَالْخَطَايَا كَمَا يُنَقَّى الثَّوْبُ الْأَبْيَضُ مِنَ الدَّنَسِ وَأَبْدِلْهُ دَارًا خَيْرًا مِنْ دَارِهِ وَأَهْلًا خَيْرًا مِنْ أَهْلِهِ وَزَوْجًا خَيْرًا مِنْ زَوْجِهِ وَأَدْخِلْهُ الْجَنَّةَ وَأَعِذْهُ مِنْ عَذَابِ الْقَبْرِ وَعَذَابِ النَّارِ
O Allah, forgive him, have mercy on him, grant him well-being, pardon him, honor his reception, expand his entrance, and wash him with water, snow, and hail. Cleanse him of sins and wrongdoings as a white garment is cleansed of filth. Grant him an abode better than his home, a family better than his family, and a spouse better than his spouse. Admit him to Paradise and protect him from the punishment of the grave and the torment of the Fire.
Sahihاللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْ هَذَا صَدَقَةً جَارِيَةً عَنْ وَالِدَيَّ
O Allah, make this an ongoing charity on behalf of my parents.
Sahihاللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْ ثَوَابَهُ لِوَالِدَيَّ وَتَقَبَّلْهُ مِنَّا إِنَّكَ أَنْتَ السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ
O Allah, grant its reward to my parents, and accept it from us. Indeed, You are the All-Hearing, the All-Knowing.
Sahihاللَّهُمَّ اجْعَلْنِي قُرَّةَ عَيْنٍ لِوَالِدَيَّ وَاجْمَعْ بَيْنِي وَبَيْنَهُمَا فِي الْفِرْدَوْسِ الْأَعْلَى
O Allah, make me the coolness of my parents' eyes, and unite me with them in the highest Paradise.
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