اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ حُبَّكَ وَحُبَّ مَنْ يُحِبُّكَ وَحُبَّ كُلِّ عَمَلٍ يُقَرِّبُنِي إِلَى حُبِّكَ
Allahumma inni as'aluka hubbaka wa hubba man yuhibbuka wa hubba kulli 'amalin yuqarribuni ila hubbik
O Allah, I ask You for Your love, the love of those who love You, and the love of every deed that brings me closer to Your love.
The framework for choosing a spouse: love Allah first, then love people who love Allah, then love actions that bring you to Allah's love. A marriage rooted in mutual love of Allah is built on the strongest foundation possible. When both spouses love Allah more than each other, their love for each other is elevated, purified, and protected — because it flows through the most reliable Source.
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اللَّهُمَّ ارْزُقْنِي زَوْجَةً صَالِحَةً إِذَا نَظَرْتُ إِلَيْهَا سَرَّتْنِي وَإِذَا غِبْتُ عَنْهَا حَفِظَتْنِي فِي نَفْسِهَا وَمَالِي
O Allah, provide me with a righteous wife — one who pleases me when I look at her, and who guards herself and my wealth in my absence.
Hasanاللَّهُمَّ أَلِّفْ بَيْنَ قُلُوبِنَا وَأَصْلِحْ ذَاتَ بَيْنِنَا وَاهْدِنَا سُبُلَ السَّلَامِ وَنَجِّنَا مِنَ الظُّلُمَاتِ إِلَى النُّورِ وَجَنِّبْنَا الْفَوَاحِشَ مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا وَمَا بَطَنَ
O Allah, unite our hearts, mend our relations, guide us to paths of peace, deliver us from darkness into light, and keep us away from indecencies — both outward and inward.
Sahihبَارَكَ اللَّهُ لَكَ وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي خَيْرٍ
May Allah bless you and shower His blessings upon you, and bring you both together in goodness.
Sahihرَبَّنَا آتِنَا فِي الدُّنْيَا حَسَنَةً وَفِي الْآخِرَةِ حَسَنَةً وَقِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ
Our Lord, give us in this world that which is good and in the Hereafter that which is good, and protect us from the punishment of the Fire.
Sahih