اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ حُبَّكَ وَحُبَّ مَنْ يُحِبُّكَ وَحُبَّ كُلِّ عَمَلٍ يُقَرِّبُنِي إِلَى حُبِّكَ
Allahumma inni as'aluka hubbaka wa hubba man yuhibbuka wa hubba kulli 'amalin yuqarribuni ila hubbik
O Allah, I ask You for Your love, the love of those who love You, and the love of every deed that brings me closer to Your love.
The framework for choosing a spouse: love Allah first, then love people who love Allah, then love actions that bring you to Allah's love. A marriage rooted in mutual love of Allah is built on the strongest foundation possible. When both spouses love Allah more than each other, their love for each other is elevated, purified, and protected — because it flows through the most reliable Source.
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رَبَّنَا أَفْرِغْ عَلَيْنَا صَبْرًا وَتَوَفَّنَا مُسْلِمِينَ
Our Lord, pour upon us patience and let us die as Muslims.
Sahihبِسْمِ اللَّهِ اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا
In the Name of Allah. O Allah, keep Shaytan away from us and keep Shaytan away from what You bless us with.
Sahihوَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِّتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً
And among His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy.
Sahihرَبَّنَا آتِنَا فِي الدُّنْيَا حَسَنَةً وَفِي الْآخِرَةِ حَسَنَةً وَقِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ
Our Lord, give us in this world that which is good and in the Hereafter that which is good, and protect us from the punishment of the Fire.
Sahih